I think the fundamental issue, here, is that successfully finding a wife in the 2010's devout Utah Mormon dating market is a problem that is very dissimilar to finding a wife in modern No Man's Land, to the point where advice doesn't really carry over beyond the bare essentials.
It's like if I moved to India and became champion of their national boxing league, and then tried to give advice to Sven, a Swedish boxer whose opponents are all 6'7" Vikings instead of 5'3" subcontinentals. I'd certainly tell him to punch his opponents until he wins, but he'd need a bit more than that to win reliably.
Yeah I try to be aware of that which is why I don't tell people to go to singles wards or whatever. Most of my data and the conversations I've had have come from people/research well outside of Utah.
Quack quack, holla back. Certain parties are wishing you well and wondering...
I think the fundamental issue, here, is that successfully finding a wife in the 2010's devout Utah Mormon dating market is a problem that is very dissimilar to finding a wife in modern No Man's Land, to the point where advice doesn't really carry over beyond the bare essentials.
It's like if I moved to India and became champion of their national boxing league, and then tried to give advice to Sven, a Swedish boxer whose opponents are all 6'7" Vikings instead of 5'3" subcontinentals. I'd certainly tell him to punch his opponents until he wins, but he'd need a bit more than that to win reliably.
Yeah I try to be aware of that which is why I don't tell people to go to singles wards or whatever. Most of my data and the conversations I've had have come from people/research well outside of Utah.